In
most times when the bone-tired bikers who have pedaled the four kilometers
uphill dirt road veer into and weave through the snaking trails under the lush
oil palms here, the kids would be cheering them in their weekend rides here in
this village.
These
half naked nutrition challenged kids, as regular as the bikers on weekends, are
brothers, sons of a young woman: Lydia Moldes.
And
like any normal woman her age, Lydia, 32, of Purok 6, Tomoc San Miguel never
dreamt of the rat-poor life she is currently living now.
The
house she calls home is a haphazardly-built hut, by well-meaning neighbors and
some concerned local government officials, all in the spirit of Bayanihan.
The
poor excuse of a house is, perched on the edge of a dried creek: a loose contraption
of round timber, loosely-woven bamboo amakan and topped by a rusting tin roof
that has seen better days.
This
is her new house which she shares with her five kids and a new partner whom she
hopes would also feed her kids even if these are before he came.
Here
is where the kitchen is a bare elevated makeshift hearth topped with a tripod
of rocks forming a stove tripod.
The
outhouse is where a water sealed bowl from the municipal health office sits.
This is without any walls, which gets one wondering how one, wanting to relieve
himself, can do that for all the world to see.
For
years, she has lived in a different house, although that too was not any better
than this.
Improving
the house is the last of her priorities, feeding her kids alone, from income in
doing odds and ends is not an assurance of at least a meal a day.
That,
she had to do, until about a year ago, when a man who would father his only
daughter, came to help her provide for their food, by doing more odd jobs,
which is even barely enough.
A
young mother of five, Lydia, jobless but occupied enough to get her five kids
fed and in school on days, has had bad days most of her young life.
Swept
off her feet to the promise of young romance at 22, she thought getting into a
relationship was her way of escape from dire need in life as a lady among many
siblings.
Barely
schooled and already deep into the task of finding a living like most of the
women her age in this table land of farms perched on top of the ridges of San
Miguel town, Lydia learned all too early the harsh farming life aggravated by a
large family.
"My
siblings are all married and live near here, she bared as she was stepping into
a makeshift 3-step ladder leading to what she and her 5 kids would call their
home.
Home,
by the way is a 3 x3 meters hut on loosely nailed rough bamboo floor, loosely
woven bamboo walls and topped with galvanized iron sheets that have seen better
days.
In
the floor litters dirty laundry, cellophane bundles from past relief missions
and coconut shells which his boys use as makeshift toys.
In
one corner strings a cloth hammock with a barely covered 3 month old baby
sucking on her thumb. Her name is Princess Ela Reguya, her youngest and
daughter of the third man she slept with.
Here,
there is no electricity, not even the telltale sign of gas or kerosene lamps,
candle drips or any hint of light at night.
On
a bamboo slatted sink sits a half empty gallon of water, which she said comes
from a drying open spring a few hundred meters nearby.
"I
also dreamt of a good life, but being too busy finding a decent food for every
meal, falling into a serious relationship is already a small comfort," she
bashfully confessed, wringing her hands as if it was a sin to do so.
Women
here in his patch of sun-baked plateaus can not just be shy, demure and
fragile. They too must muster the strength enough to take the plow and man the
beast to have something to eat by harvest time.
"Work,
and work even harder, sometimes even on empty stomach," she shared, in
between occasionally calling out to warn a half-naked kid and his brother from
too much roughing up, rousing dust as they played with sticks in the abandoned
cassava patch nearby.
She
got her first kid at 22 and no sooner was her second.
Her
first son, Patrick, 10 was with another kid hunting birds for food when we
came.
Her
second child Marcelino, 9 was playing with his brothers John Phillip 7 and Gian
Morga, 3 years old son from yet another man, was nibbling from a days old
coconut meat, watching his elder brothers wrestle and tickle each other in the
midday sun. We never had the courage to ask if the coconut meat this was their version
of lunch.
In
a makeshift kitchen with nothing but a raised earthen stove and an overturned
pan, a thin cat was wiping its whiskers with a dirty paw, not a sign of fire in
the hearth.
Dressed
in a blue blouse over a floral pedal pusher that has seen better days, Lydia
has to be fetched by her 7 year old son from a neighbor’s house about 800
meters from her home in midday, when we arrived.
A
handpicked beneficiary for the biker’s Share a Light project, Lydia received a
solar light in an AM-FM radio, USB player and spotlight package.
The
Moldes home sits right in a mountain bike trail, and as a form of appreciation
to the community where the trails are located, bikers leave something here
every year.
“We
started with candies and school supplies for the kids who encourage us as we
pass by, until we saw the opportunity to help,” said biker Jimmy Reposposa, who
incidentally is also a community health nurse.
Lydia
has also received family planning advice from biker health professionals, and
the kids have received clothes, but with two of them in school, having a light
for them to study their lessons at night would have been great, Reposposa
shared one time.
“Late
last year, we came here and organized a bayanihan to build a house for them,
but we could not put up all the materials, so we did the best that we could be
put in,” he added.
Last
Sunday, the bikers along with Bohol News Today editor Ric Obedencio drove all
the way to Tomoc to deliver the Share a Light package to the Moldes’ family.
Just
like I wished, Lydia eagerly accepted the solar-radio module and watched as we
installed the light bulb included in the solar-radio package, even as she
smiled looking at the battery-fed LED bulb.
A
minute later, the FM was already playing music, powered by a small solar panel
now on top of the roof.
This,
is by far the best gift I received, I do not know what my new partner will say
when he sees this tonight, she said, after admitting she has been a music lover
too.
The
bikers also intend to come back and install a rain-water collector so that the
family would have use of clean water every time the rains come. They also intend
to put up the roof and walls of the outhouse, so the kids would have a place to
relieve.
First,
it’s the light and then there will be water and a sanitary toilet, hoping that
through this, the kids will grow and study better, they will be your best chance
in life, Reposposa told the elated young mother. (rahchiu/PIA-7/Bohol)
SOLAR
RADIO PACK. Bohol bikers give back to the communities where mountain bike
trails traverse, and this off-grid household in Tomoc, San Miguel gets a radio
solar light package, in a bid to also help families beat poverty through
education. (rahchiu/PIA-7/Bohol)
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